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Cover of the book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

#67 Burning desire, clear plans, and persistence: lessons for the New Year

I always wanted to subscribe to Blinkist, but I found it too expensive. Unexpectedly, Blinkist came my way, as my partner accidentally bought a yearly subscription and I decided to split it with her. One thing that’s amazing about Blinkist—and that I didn’t know—is that you can have a joint subscription.

I dove into it and I’ve already read/listened to multiple Blinks, which, for those who are not familiar with the app, are summaries of great books you can consume either by listening or reading.

Among these, I found one filled with amazing reminders: Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

Since it’s the end of the year, and I think this book could help anybody who wants to have a successful and great next year, I wanted to share my main takeaways in an even more concise way, with a personal perspective where applicable.

1. Burning desire

A burning desire—for me, it’s completing my novel. Even though I will still reflect on it during my Year Compass reflections, which I will do this week, I already feel this desire clearly guiding me.

👉 If you want to know more about the Year Compass, you can read my post on this topic here:
#18 A compass for the year ahead that works

2. Detailed goal and plan

Goal and detailed plan: read them out loud twice a day.

As I was reading this, I realized I want to follow this approach to finish my book—having a detailed plan of my weekly goals, but also a clearly laid-out book structure. This instead of relying on spontaneous moments of inspiration, which, despite being fun and amazing, come with the downside of being sporadic.

With the blog, this is much easier. Its format—periodic posts related to topics I’m interested in, reflections, and personal insights—already provides a solid framework. The openness of a blog and its frequency are a really good structure to achieve this.

3. Unwavering faith

Have unwavering faith in yourself. It can help us move mountains.

I think, for example, of my desire to leave Italy and explore the outside world. I held this dream for almost the 17 years I lived there—and I eventually achieved it. I think about my university achievements despite the obstacles and gaps I had. I think about finding a job again after more than a year of unemployment.

👉 I wrote more about this difficult period and what it taught me here:
#33 Do we remember with honesty? | #28 Le sfide del processo d’integrazione tra ammirazione e invidia

4. Autosuggestions

Autosuggestions— influencing yourself with specific, purposeful thoughts. Persuading yourself.

This is a kind of self-hypnosis, but as long as it’s done consciously, without losing your compass of what’s realistically achievable with your current knowledge and experience, this is definitely a powerful tool.

5. Knowledge is power

Repeating Mr. Bacon’s evergreen Scientia potentia est, translated from Latin as “knowledge is power.”

But stacking facts on top of each other is not what this really means. Knowledge is experience—and yes, knowledge itself—not a mere accumulation of concepts. It’s the willingness to continue learning throughout our lives.

We also need to know where we can find knowledge, and for that, it’s always better to be surrounded by people who know more than we do.

6. Dreams into ideas, ideas into reality

In a nutshell, we need to be able to imagine with no boundaries, then shape those ideas into something concrete and within our reach—and then go for it in the world we live in.

7. Know your own strengths and weaknesses

Being self-aware in an honest, conscious way allows us to take action against our weaknesses.

To do that, Hill suggests asking ourselves the following three questions:

  • Have I achieved my aim for this year?
  • Was I a good communicator?
  • Did I make all the right decisions along the way?

Then, ask what could have been improved. Finally, evaluate this with somebody who knows us well and is honest enough to point out our weaknesses. We also need to be open to hearing it.

8. Positive emotions

Here, I feel I have a lot of room for improvement.

In recent years, overconsumption of news and listening to my own—and others’—overcritical voices has made me quite pessimistic about many aspects of life. Without mentioning the component of negative thinking that comes from my own family.

👉 This theme also runs deeply through my novel-in-progress:
#60 “Il giovane che voleva andarsene”, un romanzo – Parte I, 1

Positive emotions are key to a successful life and must be nurtured. Feed the positivity within you. Avoid negative people and information. Don’t waste your life on pessimistic headlines. Fill it with love and enthusiasm.

9. Determination is key

Make decisions and stand behind them, no matter what. Stick to what you believe in. Don’t let negative, unsubstantiated influences and criticism get to you.

At the same time, stay open to constructive feedback. Smart people know how to point you in the right direction while empowering you. Surround yourself with that kind of people.

10. Only the persistent will succeed

Persistence and endurance are key. Remember these lessons:

  • Identify your burning desire
  • Have a concrete goal
  • Have a very specific plan
  • Don’t let negative, unsubstantiated opinions affect your resolve
  • Have a trustworthy and knowledgeable network of people around you—people who are better than you and can provide support and assistance

11. The bigger the goal, the more people you will need

This closing thought really resonated with me.

The bigger the goal, the more of the right people you’ll need to support you and your dream—a selected group of like-minded souls. If these people put all their knowledge and burning desire together, the sky is the limit.

Use this in your Year Compass, and I’m sure you’ll achieve great things next year.

Bottom line

Big goals don’t live in isolation. They need clarity, belief, emotional balance, and the right people around them. What Think and Grow Rich reminded me—through Blinkist and through my own reflections—is that success is less about sudden breakthroughs and more about steady alignment between desire, action, and persistence. If you take even one of these ideas into the new year, you’re already moving forward.

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#59 Blogging after a holiday

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Being stressed about something simple

Having not published any posts for two weeks made me frustrated.
“Calm down, nobody missed your posts anyway…” whispers my brain. It’s the low-self-esteem part of my brain speaking—the part that always sounds like that bully from high school we wished would break his leg in an accident… and he never fucking did!

BUT there is truth in what that part of my brain has been telling me. It’s actually not that big of a deal, if I skip some publications. Right?
Right!

I’m doing this because I enjoy writing, correct? I don’t earn shit when posting a new article, right?
Right!

And yet, my diligent, disciplined, and consistency-oriented side doesn’t want to let go of the disappointment stemming from losing the “weekly track record,” a self-made goal.
Maybe, deep down in the unconscious, this has something to do with my childhood, and a desire for predictability and control… Isn’t everything related to that? Our childhood.

Then there is the other part of my brain speaking—the part that justifies every single missed opportunity with nonsensical, misapplied Stoic-inspired quotes like “there is no right or wrong”, “everything happens for a reason”, or “keep calm, trust the process.” After all, even when I don’t post, I am devoting time to improve my work. I am working on new ideas, polishing my old posts, analyzing my content, trying to figure out the SEO stuff… And I have a list of open tabs in my head all the time. Things I want to do in my blog that don’t include writing. So technically I am always kind of working on this project.

And yet, unless I write and post something, there is a lingering feeling of non-achievement, stinging me like a mosquito, over and over.

This is why I’m coming up with this spontaneous reflection, which sounds more like a rant than anything else.
Let’s try to make the most out of it, though.

Planning the break

First, we have to act before it even happens: it’s important to plan.
Having a clear idea of how we will handle the blog break matters. Do we want to schedule a few posts in advance? Warn our audience (if we have one) about our temporary absence? Bring moleskine and pen with us and take some random notes from time to time?

And that, right there, was my first mistake. I didn’t prepare a plan, anything. Or better, I deluded myself (by bringing moleskine and pen) that I would prolifically write neat posts, which I would then transcribe and publish right away on my return. Well, guess what happened? I had fun on my holiday. I just relaxed and enjoyed it. And throughout the whole week, I had no intention whatsoever of being productive in any freaking way. As it’s supposed to happen. It’s a holiday!

The return and acclimatizing again

Key is keeping in mind the transition phase from holiday to real life. Responsibilities, day-to-day errands, the oppressing energy of the city, the change of seasons—all these things hit you hard.
Personally, I feel like shit the first two, three weeks after a holiday, as I would love to stay in it. Accept it, do things that make you feel better, and don’t take real life too seriously. At the end of the day, we are all hustling, trying to survive while enjoying life a little, without too many worries, especially when there’s a freaking season change in the middle. I can’t begin to explain how my brain is being fucked up by all these.

So, calculate a couple of extra weeks to acclimatize upon return from a holiday.

Restarting to write

Forget about the big projects and fancy posts—just forget about it.

Instead, wait until something spontaneous—something that feels true to you—comes up, then throw the words on paper (or on the screen) and start piecing together the puzzle as you go.

If you are blocked

Accept it and try to chill. It’s also a good chance to read what other bloggers are up to—what are they writing? Is there a topic you’ve been wanting to explore as a reader? Do you follow someone inspiring you’ve been wondering what they were up to? This is a perfect time for “stalking.”

What else?

Out of curiosity, I checked some articles on the same topic. I checked them after writing mine, as I didn’t want to be influenced by existing material, even though SEO experts suggest doing research before you write, to get a sense of what it takes to be on the top ranks. Screw that! Haha.

Anyways, here are a couple of articles that I found actually useful (and a very similar take to mine, even though more concise) and that I will keep as a reminder for the next time I will go on holiday.

1) https://www.exprance.com/how-to-return-to-blogging-after-a-break/
2) https://www.productiveblogging.com/how-to-juggle-blogging-and-holidays/
3) https://www.nosegraze.com/vacation-post-or-not-post/

One last thing

At the end of the day, blogging after a break isn’t about punishing myself for lost momentum—it’s about embracing the reset and letting creativity return at its own pace. Next time, maybe I’ll plan a little more, or maybe I’ll just let the holiday do what holidays are supposed to do: help me enjoy life, recharge, and come back when inspiration strikes.

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#49 “The Visit”, a short story – Part 3

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