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Di tanto in tanto ripenso al tormento che ho vissuto durante la mia relazione precedente. Non ho saputo creare un equilibrio, né tantomeno marcare dei sani confini. Mi sono lasciato sopraffare da una persona nervosa, sospettosa, incapace di comunicare in modo costruttivo e triste. Lei si portava dietro una dolorosa ferita mai del tutto guarita, provocata da qualcuno venuto prima di me.
La memoria di quel tormentato periodo riaffiora ancora e, con essa, le emozioni legate a quel momento della mia vita.
Alcune emozioni affaticano lo spirito e ci trascinano in una dimensione oscura e mostruosa. Sono sintomi di mali che hanno radici profonde nel tempo, nel cuore e nella mente.
Ho — o meglio, ho sempre avuto — la strana tendenza a credere che le persone che incontro abbiano un grande potere su di me, soprattutto quando possiedono un’energia negativa. Forse è così per tutti. Il male è come una malattia estremamente contagiosa: è bene vaccinarsi e, se la si contrae, è fondamentale curarsi prima che ci debiliti o, peggio, che ci uccida.
Forse ci vorrà del tempo prima che guarisca del tutto, ma è positivo notare che ho la consapevolezza di non essere nessun altro se non me stesso.
Non ripeterò l’errore commesso da altri nei miei confronti: la donna che amo sarà libera di vivere come vuole, e così sarò io. All’insegna del rispetto reciproco, della tolleranza, dell’accettazione e della libertà.
Às vezes acontece de eu ficar bloqueado em certos pensamentos, e lentamente eles se tornam obsessões. Isso sempre aconteceu, agora que reflito sobre o assunto, mas antes acontecia inconscientemente. Hoje em dia, não demoro a tomar conhecimento do que está acontecendo dentro da minha cabeça.
Embora assim seja, quando pensamentos e emoções se misturam de forma indissolúvel, é mais difícil pensar lucidamente e manter o controle das próprias reações.
Hoje em dia, somos muito bem informados sobre várias técnicas de relaxamento, como exercícios de respiração, meditação, etc. Mas tem uma técnica sobre a qual não leio muito e que poderia tornar todos nós calmos e únicos escritores: escrever histórias baseadas nos pensamentos que nos atormentam.
Sim, claro, escritores usam com muita frequência acontecimentos pessoais como inspiração para as próprias histórias, mas quem não é escritor não sabe disso. Tudo que acontece conosco é material criativo para futuros livros.
Escrever sobre nossos pensamentos, sobre nossas histórias, relações, etc., relaxa e nos ajuda a canalizar nossa vida de forma construtiva, suponho, ou pelo menos é assim para mim. Por isso, eu aconselharia: em vez de escrever seu próprio diário dos acontecimentos, escreva histórias inspiradas na própria vida. Obviamente, respeitando a privacidade das pessoas envolvidas na vida real, usando animais como personagens, outras épocas, nomes fictícios, etc.
É muito divertido e ajuda a processar o que mantém sua mente ocupada de forma desagradável.
Um exemplo concreto: se você tiver um problema com colegas de trabalho que te mantêm acordado e ansioso, escreva uma história. Seus colegas podem se tornar alienígenas com os quais você não consegue se comunicar, e daí você inventa um desafio, personagens, história, seguindo as bases da narrativa de forma simples.
Se você nunca tentou, tente e conte como foi sua experiência.
I want to keep this post brief and share the key insights without wasting anyone’s time with a story that isn’t necessary. I’ll just say that the tip I’m sharing is a prompt I created by feeding perplexity.ai some questions related to my CV, future career steps, closing learning gaps based on market trends, and my current skills.
At the moment, I have a stable position where I work mainly in German and French. I love languages, and especially German has been quite a barrier to get past for a long time, so it’s pretty dope that I get paid to keep speaking German and improving my skill daily! Also, after spending almost the whole of 2024 unemployed, I can only be grateful for my current professional situation.
Of course, I have ambitious plans for my future. As someone with insatiable curiosity who is always learning, I’m constantly considering my next steps. That’s why I asked Perplexity to analyze my CV and give me some tips on career advancement, learning new skills, and planning a shift in my professional life. I also believe this prompt could be useful to those aiming at getting back to work after a period of unemployment.
Anyway, enough introduction! I wrote much more than intended. Here are some of the most effective prompts for supporting career development when someone provides their CV, along with examples for planning next steps, recommending relevant courses, suggesting career transitions, and outlining practical steps:
1. Assessment & Goal Clarification
“Based on my CV, what aspects of my current role do I enjoy or excel at the most, and which ones might I want to change or avoid?”
2. Gap Analysis & Skill Mapping
“Given my experience in areas like XYZ, what technical or soft skills am I missing that are commonly required in my target industry or desired roles?”
3. Targeted Course Recommendations
“Considering my background and the positions I’m aiming for, which specific skills or certifications would most boost my chances of landing interviews in those roles?”
4. Career Shift Possibilities
“Do any cross-functional projects or side responsibilities from my current or past jobs suggest possible new career directions, such as project management, training, or translation management?”
5. Actionable Career Planning
“Can you outline a 90-day career action plan that includes résumé updates, networking objectives (for example, reaching out to professionals in my target industry), and a list of relevant courses to complete?”
6. Industry and Role Exploration
“With the current job market trends, which roles related to my experience show strong growth prospects, and what are the entry requirements for those roles?”
7. Reflection and Motivation
“What motivates me most in my work—problem-solving, helping others, working with technology—and how could this shape my ideal career direction?”
Best Practices for Using These Prompts:
- Combine objective CV review with subjective goal setting.
- Prioritize actionable, short-term steps with measurable outcomes.
- Regularly revisit goals as skills and external factors evolve.
These prompts create a structure that helps you assess your present position, recognize growth areas, and build a plan that includes upskilling and networking, ultimately increasing the likelihood of successful career transitions.
I would suggest printing your results and going with the flow, seeing how it works for you, and eventually make adjustments to align with your goals and current circumstances.
I started this blog a year ago, mainly as a way to rediscover a sense of purpose during a period of unemployment. I also wanted to build a writing portfolio to share with recruiters during interview processes and increase my chances of being hired in my field of interest: anything related to writing, researching, translating, content strategy, project management, and so on.
However, it soon became something more—not just a tool for job searching, but a personal space where I wanted to invest more time, experiment, and perhaps pursue long-held dreams, like publishing short stories and novels on my own platform. Since publishing a physical book still feels out of reach.
This blog didn’t start out the way it is now. In fact, it used to be a messy personal website with too many pages, scattered content, and little structure. So I slowly shaped it into what you can see today, which I hope comes acroos as a simple collection of blog posts.
I decided to invest a little in a Personal WordPress subscription. I would have gone for the Premium plan, but it’s literally twice the price, and there is no free trial to see if it’s actually worth it for the purpose of my website. That’s why I opened a donation page on Ko-fi, even though that is not really necessary at this stage. And if I ever build a larfer audience in the future, I would gladly invest my own money to bring better content—although I don’t know what “better content” would look like yet.
I don’t know if this makes sense, but I think I know what I am doing, while at the same time having no idea of what I’m doing.
At times, this whole blog thing feels like an extension of a personal diary—not because of the content itself, but because I’m writing primarly for myself, and maybe that’s the case. But what I actually mean is that building an audience is truly hard. Sure, I could have emailed every single person I know and told them, “Hey, I have this cool new blog, wanna take a look?”—but that idea terrifies me. I would rather let this blog exist among millions, probably billions of pages published every day and connect with those with which my content resonates. It feels more purposeful, less of an obligation to my friends, family, acquaintances, and so on.
Maybe that’s just the lone wolf. But anyway, this is a bigger topic, one I may (or may not) come back to in the future.
Recently, following the example of some blogs I found out there, I decided to reorganize my posts into the categories: reflections, experiences, short stories, novels (still to come), and explorations. Then, in an attempt to broaden my audience, I also created new tags, long tags, and so on and so forth.
I have to admit, I have zero patience for this SEO stuff. I would love to develop my marketing skills in a professional setting, but in my personal time, I just want to write. So, I ChatGPT the shit out of this SEO stuff!
Since I squeeze my free time to write consistently (combining long commutes, work, reading, training, relationship, and so on), I don’t overthink what I publish, and I don’t spend too much time editing.
As I mentioned in previous posts, I use AI tools only to correct typos and grammatical mistakes—not to alter my style or rephrase things I’ve written. I have a personal prompt that keeps this as ethical and minimal as possible, since, as far as I understand, using AI too heavily could raise questions about ownership or originality under some copyright interpretations.
Concluding without a real conclusion, I am still very excited about this project—especially because I have endless ideas that I want to execute. But I am not in a rush, and I accept now more than before that sometimes it can take longer to write better content, especially when it comes to fiction, which is my favorite—but also the most demanding stuff.